OPTION 1: Want to know more about possible causes?
Probable Causes for Breakup - 10 Questions Self Test
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Option 2: You already know the cause and want to know how to handle the improvement of relationship
If you know the cause and your partner is still interested in you, your laziness can broke both the hearts. But don't get emotional and hurry away. Get to know how to handle the rebound relationship right.
Or is it your partner who is the underlying irritant? Want to know how to handle the rebound relationship?
Here are 4 tips you can use to get back your partner
1. Being yourelf is most important
The relationship started due to some chemistry which needs to be preserved for success.
2. Get out now
Going out will calm you down. You will get fresh perspective. call friends and have some entertainment.
3. Control communications
Do not go around begging. That might spoil the relationship. If you have made a mistake. Apologize the right way with no ifs and buts. But if the mistake is big enough, you may have to give the partner some time before even making an apology. Do not bombard your ex with messages.
4. Be flexible but do not lose yourself
You need to adjust to the problems your partner is facing. But do not go around clinging or be desperate. Your ex should see you have moved on but they have not yet moved on.
Do not take decisions in an emotional manner. Have you come to the position where you can make decisions in a rational manner?
If yes?
Still diffident!!! No decision is a final decision. Decisions can change provided you introduce the right changes in the relationship.
If no?
If it is the ex who broke up on you, do not be powerless and be always available. Do not allow your ex to treat you like a doormat. If the ex has started seeing someone, act indifferent to the relationship. Concentrate on your life, career, hobbies and interests.
If you broke up, think about the relationship again. You would have had some wonderful moments together. Leave the negatives and move on.
Relationships need that newness and be creative about to it. Are you ready to get out of relationship blues?
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